The balcony outside my apartment is slowly becoming a tiny sanctuary for one of my favorite visitors: the mourning dove I mentioned in a prior post. I’m not trying to attract every bird in the neighborhood (although I wouldn't hate it if I did), just this one gentle friend who keeps stopping by. So, I found a big feeder bowl for birds on Amazon, filled it with seed, and set it securely on the railing, just for him. 

Then I waited.

It didn’t take long for him to find it. At first, he was cautious, barely landing long enough to grab a few seeds before darting away at the slightest movement. His eyes were always scanning, his wings ready to lift off at the hint of danger. But by the end of the week, he stayed a little longer. His quick pecks slowed down, and eventually, he made a major change. He grew so comfortable that he didn’t just eat, he lounged in the food bowl. Now, I wake up in the mornings and find him settled right there, as if it’s his personal recliner, quietly watching the world move far below on the street.

This past week, we had one of those storms that makes the news…the kind where phones buzz with emergency alerts, events are canceled, the wind howls like it’s trying to pull the sky down, and rain pounds against the windowsills. By morning, branches were scattered across sidewalks, people were out cleaning up debris, and there, right in the middle of it all, sat my mourning dove, perched in his food bowl, calm as ever, watching the world recover.

As I watched him, I had a thought.  He wouldn’t sit in the food bowl if he didn’t feel safe. And what does it really mean to feel safe? On this earth, feeling safe means you’re protected, it means you’re taken care of, it means you’re loved.

That little dove has gone from being afraid to knowing his needs are met. He doesn’t panic anymore. Even after a storm, he sits there, unbothered, watching the world carry on. Honestly, I think if I walked out on the balcony, I’m not even sure he would fly away.

Isn’t it amazing what happens to us when we know we’re safe? When we know we’re protected? When we know we’re loved? Fear loses its grip. We stop flinching at every sound or shadow, and we begin to rest right where we are, like that dove in his bowl of seed, knowing there’s enough, knowing there’s no need to rush or hide.

The problem is we forget we are safe on an everyday basis, that God holds us in His holy hands.  When we have forgotten, when we have spiritual amnesia, fear sneaks in where it doesn’t belong. Fear whispers that we don’t have enough. It tries to tell us we're not loved. It tries to convince us God isn’t who He promises to be.

And yet, hasn’t life proven differently? Hasn’t He always taken care of me? Haven’t I always been fed? Haven’t I always been safe? Haven’t I always been loved?

Yes, I have. I know I have. So why panic when the storms roll in?

We are the dove, the ones who can lay in the food bowl, knowing we have enough, and not worry. But it’s not just about enjoying the blessings we’ve been given. When we truly recognize the abundance we have in Christ, we become free.  Free to give ourselves to others, free to show our true selves without fear, free to live generously.

We don’t have to cling to what we have or live as if there’s not enough to go around. We can love others fully, help others freely, because we know our God always takes care of us. He keeps us safe. He is the abundance that never runs out.

It reminds me of the Israelites in the wilderness.

The Call Into The Wilderness

The Israelites came out of generations of slavery in Egypt, where chaos and fear were the norm. They didn’t know what safety was; there was no “lying in a food bowl” for a slave in Egypt. Life was harsh, unpredictable, and full of pain. Yet, through miracle after miracle, the Lord brought them out. He split the Red Sea in two, led them across on dry ground, and destroyed the pursuing Egyptian army before their eyes. They had seen God’s power firsthand.

But years of fear and oppression leave deep scars, and don’t we all know it? Trust doesn’t come overnight when your entire life has been built on surviving under the whip of an oppressor. Every day of their past life had demanded as much work as their bodies could endure, and probably even more. So even though they were physically free from Pharaoh, mentally they were still in prison. They didn’t feel safe. They were scared. They were hungry. And they didn’t know where their next meal would come from. Panic set in quickly. They grumbled, they doubted, and they accused Moses and Aaron of leading them out into the wilderness just to die.

In their desperation, they even began romanticizing Egypt. “If only we had died by the Lord’s hand in Egypt!” they cried, thinking back to the plagues that struck their captors. “There we sat around pots of meat and ate all the food we wanted, but you have brought us into this desert to starve this entire assembly to death.” Their memories were twisted by fear. Did they truly have plenty in Egypt? Likely not. But when panic sets in, even slavery can feel safer than the unknown.

Isn’t that what we do sometimes? We reach for old habits, old fears, and old ways of thinking simply because they are familiar, even if they kept us chained. But God doesn’t bring us out of bondage only to abandon us. He promises provision, and He uses the wilderness to teach us to trust Him.

So God told Moses, “I will rain down bread from heaven for you” (Exodus 16:4). And just like that, manna appeared.  Sweet, fresh, and unlike anything they had ever seen. Every morning, it blanketed the ground, waiting to be gathered. It could be ground into flour or beaten into dough, baked into cakes or eaten as it was. The people called it “manna,” which literally means “What is it?” because they had no other word for this heavenly bread.

But the manna came with instructions. They were to gather only what they needed for each day, no more, no less. On the sixth day, they were to gather enough for two days because the seventh day was a holy day of rest. Of course, some didn’t listen. Fear makes us hoard. When they tried to gather more than they needed, it rotted overnight. God was teaching them a vital truth: He wasn’t just their Savior; He was their Lord.

And He didn’t stop there. In response to their longing for meat, God sent quail into their camp. In fact, he sent so many quail they could catch them by hand! God was showing them that He could provide both bread and meat, both daily sustenance and unexpected abundance.

This wasn’t just a one-time miracle. The manna fell for forty years!  Every single day until they entered the Promised Land. It was always enough. Not too much. Not too little. Through this, God was teaching them contentment and trust. Each night, they went to sleep with no bread stored in their tents, believing that when morning came, God’s storehouse would open again, and the bread from heaven would be waiting for them.  Sweet, fresh, and exactly what they needed.

The Forward Momentum

Isn’t it fascinating how many stories in the Bible carry the same steady rhythm? Don’t look back. Don’t go back. Keep moving forward.

From the Israelites in the wilderness to the disciples leaving their nets, and even to Lot’s wife, God continually calls His people to walk away from what once held them, to stop clinging to the familiar chains of the past, and to trust Him with what’s ahead. Lot’s wife turned around and instantly became a pillar of salt, not because she glanced back with curiosity, but because her heart was still tied to what God had already called her out of. Egypt looked better in the Israelites’ memory than it ever was in reality.

And the same is true for us. How often do we long for what once was, our "Egypt", our old habits, our old ways, because they feel predictable? But God says, “No. I have something better. I will provide. I will protect. Just follow Me.” Paul understood this truth deeply when he wrote, “But one thing I do: forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:13–14).

The Israelites didn’t fully appreciate the miracle of their freedom. We can easily draw that conclusion, but should we ask ourselves the same question?  Do we appreciate the miracle of our freedom? Do we really understand what God has done to set us free? Yes, He secured our eternity through the cross, but He is also working to free us now, from the mental prisons, the fears, and the chains that still haunt us. He’s not just an “insurance policy” for heaven. He wants us to truly live in freedom today, trusting that He will provide and care for us just as surely as He parted the Red Sea.

It takes time to be freed mentally from the things that enslave us, our toxic habits, addictions, unhealthy relationships, fear, and shame. Freedom can feel terrifying when you’ve spent years in slavery. The Israelites knew that feeling all too well. They wanted to run back to what was familiar, even if it hurt them. And don’t we do the same? Even after we’ve seen God work miracles in our lives, we sometimes run back to the very things that once held us captive, because at least they feel familiar.

But God doesn’t call us to move on from the past for no reason. He doesn’t want anyone or anything ruling our lives except Him. He didn’t want the Egyptians ruling the Israelites, and He doesn’t want our sin ruling us. It doesn’t matter what it is.  If a toxic relationship is controlling our hearts, if addiction is chaining our souls, if we’re drowning in media that poisons our thoughts, if food, drugs, depression, or fear have us in their grip, God will always call us out.

He first freed the Israelites physically, but it took far longer to free them mentally. He went to great lengths to show them what true freedom looks like. He literally led them into the wilderness not to punish them, but to set them free, to teach them that real freedom is found in Him alone. Prisons aren’t always physical. And mental prisons, chains of shame, fear, or self-doubt, are often harder to break than iron bars. Yet God is a God of freedom. Not just freedom from Pharaoh or from slavery, but freedom from anything that dares to rule His children’s hearts.

The message is clear throughout Scripture: God doesn’t want us living in the past. He doesn’t want us ruled by fear, or stuck in shame. He wants to redefine us, to feed us, and to lead us forward, one step, one day, one manna-morning at a time.

Whether it’s a dove resting in a food bowl after a storm, or a worn-out Israelite gathering heaven’s bread in the wilderness, God’s call is the same: Trust Me. I’ve got you. You don’t need to run. You don’t need to store it all up. Just come back each day, and I’ll be there.

So what about us? What “Egypt” are we tempted to run back to, those old patterns, fears, or habits that feel safer than trusting God with the unknown? He’s calling us to let go of the past, to stop living like prisoners when He has already opened the gates. He is our Provider, our Freedom, and our Sustainer. Just as He fed the Israelites with manna each morning, He will give us what we need, grace for today, strength for this moment, hope for tomorrow. 

But we have to choose to trust Him instead of hoarding fear, instead of looking back. Like Paul, we can press on, our eyes fixed on Jesus, confident that the One who parts seas and breaks chains will lead us into the life of freedom He’s promised. It’s time to step forward, to trust, and to live as if we’re truly free.  

Because we are.

I had a quiet, beautiful birthday. No big production, just stillness, peace, and the kind of silence that I love.

When I got home that evening, I pulled out my journal, ready to spend some time with God.  I had a plan to look back over the years with a heart full of both gratitude and regret. I was bracing myself to revisit some painful memories, to apologize yet again for the ways I’ve messed up, for the seasons I wandered off course. I was ready to tell Him thank you for rescuing someone like me, someone who’s so often chosen the wrong path when I knew what was right.

But something unexpected happened.

Instead of my planned reel of past failures, my mind was suddenly flooded with memories of good. Beautiful moments. Sacred moments. Times when I had said yes to the right thing. When I showed up even though it was hard. I remembered holding my grandfather’s hand in his final days. I remembered flying overseas to be with my brother after his accident. I remembered adopting my children from Russia. The list went on and on.

It caught me off guard.

Instead of needing to be reminded of my forgiveness, I was reminded of my value. Instead of shame, I felt seen. Loved. Isn’t that just like God?  When we’re ready to lower our heads in guilt, He gently lifts our chin and says, Look again, my child. You’re more than your mistakes.

What a Father.

It’s not that God is unaware of our sin.  But in His mercy, He refuses to define us by it. In fact, He died so He wouldn't have to. That’s the staggering beauty of the cross: sacred grace, poured out on people who could never earn it.  He does not want us living trapped in the shame of our past. He’s not the God of guilt trips. He’s the God who’s always doing something new.

“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” Isaiah 43:18–19

His love is not hesitant or limited.  It is absolute, unrelenting, and defined by compassion. When we see no value in ourselves, He gently reminds us of the value He placed in us from the beginning. When we hang our heads in shame, He is already speaking over us: Look forward, not back. I’m not finished with you yet.  He is the God of new beginnings. Of unending, unfailing, infinite love.

So, as usual, things didn’t go according to my plan when it came to my birthday plans with God.

I thought it would be a quiet time of repentance and reflection, a walk through the memories of mistakes I’ve made. But instead, it turned into something unexpected, a kind of victory lap. A gentle reminder of the good I’ve brought into the world. Of the moments I showed up, stepped in, and said yes when it mattered most.

Instead of failure, He showed me value.

He also reminded me of something we don’t talk about nearly enough: doing good isn’t easy. Those memories came at a price, He reminded me.  Doing good comes at a cost. It takes effort. It takes sacrifice. It often means choosing the harder road, and He sees that. He knows. He understands the invisible weight behind every good thing we choose to do in His name.

I came away from that night reenergized. Reinvigorated. With a new resolve, not to live in the rearview mirror of my past mistakes, but to move forward. To do good. To keep becoming more of that person He sees in me.  Because really, what good does it do to sit and focus on past mistakes, when God is calling us to step into a future filled with purpose?

It reminds me of Peter. 

Breakfast On The Beach

Peter was the disciple who was ready to die for Jesus at any given moment.  He made bold declaration after bold declaration, from a love that ran deep in his heart for his Savior.  Sure, there were times Peter’s ego might’ve gotten the best of him, just like the rest of us. He famously declared to Jesus in front of others, “I’ll never deny you.” 

But then, the night came. That night.

He couldn’t have imagined the horror that was ahead of him. He couldn’t have imagined the fear that would take hold of him.  Everyone turned against Jesus. Everyone was chanting for Him to die. It’s easy to be brave in front of one or two people, but when the weight of an entire movement turns, it’s different.

Then, the exact thing Peter swore he’d never do, he did.  He denied Jesus. During His darkest hour.
The Person he loved most on earth, he denied. Not once, but three times.

It wasn’t like Jesus didn’t know. Jesus knew.  In fact, Scripture says Jesus looked at him the moment it happened, right there in the middle of His pain, right after the rooster crowed.  Peter then remembered Jesus had predicted it, and the weight must’ve crushed him.

The regret. The shame.  Imagine hurting someone you love most during their hardest hour.
Imagine betraying your child, your spouse, while they’re being tortured, and they know it. The love Peter had for Jesus was greater than a love for a child or a spouse, so we can only imagine. 

The loss of Jesus over those three days wasn’t just grief for Peter.  It was laced with the terrible truth that at Jesus’ moment of greatest sacrifice, Peter had completely failed Him.  How many times did he replay it in his mind?  How many times did he revisit every mistake, wonder if he had disqualified himself for good?  All those moments, walking on water, acts of faith, devotion...all of it felt erased in one flash of fear.

But that’s not the end of Peter’s story.  And it’s never the end of ours, either.

Our Savior refuses to define us by our worst moment.  Three days later, the most beautiful thing happened:  Jesus rose from the dead.

If that weren’t miracle enough, He went looking for Peter.  When He found him, it wasn’t to shame him. It wasn’t to demand an apology or give a lecture on loyalty.  Jesus found Peter by cooking him breakfast on the beach.

Why was Peter on the water?  Because he (and some of the other disciples) had gone back to his old life as a fisherman.  After that kind of failure, he didn’t think he was worthy of leading anyone, let alone starting a church that would be the most meaningful movement in the history of mankind.

Peter had gone back to what he knew.  After the grief, the failure, and the crushing weight of shame, he returned to the familiar rhythm of casting nets and hauling fish. His heart may have still loved Jesus, but he no longer believed he was worthy of following Him. So he fished.

Then, one early morning, while the sky was still soft with the blush of dawn, someone stood on the shoreline. The disciples didn’t recognize Him at first. But this stranger called out from the shore:

“Friends, haven’t you any fish?”

They hadn’t.

“Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some.”

So they did.

Just like that first time, their nets were overwhelmed with fish, bursting, straining under the weight of grace. In that moment, something clicked.

John whispered it first: “It is the Lord.”

Peter didn’t hesitate.  He didn’t stop to pull in the net. He didn’t wait for the boat to turn around. He didn’t worry about how deep the water was or what the others might think.  He jumped.

Fully clothed, soaking his garments, heart pounding, Peter threw himself into the water. It was the second time he had stepped out of a boat to get to Jesus, but this time, it wasn’t about walking on water.  This time, it was about getting back to Him, as fast as possible.

I imagine Peter swimming hard, his arms cutting through the waves, his eyes locked on the shoreline. No more distance. No more denial. Just the overwhelming need to be near his Savior again.  When he reached the shore, there He was.

Jesus.  Not with a sword. Not with a list of grievances.  But with a fire, breakfast, and the peace and love He always brings to every encounter.

Can you imagine that moment?  The warmth of the fire. The sound of waves lapping quietly behind them. The smell of fish and bread. Peter, dripping wet, breathless, in shock, standing face-to-face with the One he thought he had lost forever.

Jesus simply looked at him.  No condemnation or shame.  Just welcome.  It was reunion.  It was restoration.  It was grace that cooked breakfast and waited patiently by the sea.

Then, Jesus asked a question.

“Peter, do you love Me?”

He asked it three times, one for every denial.  With every answer of confirmation from Peter, Jesus restored him and gave him instructions.

Feed my sheep.
Care for my people.
Follow me.

It’s as if Jesus was saying, I’m not here to relive your worst moment. I’m here to remind you of who you are, and who you’re becoming.  I’m here to give you purpose. I’m here to tell you to look forward, not backward.

God didn’t define Peter by his past.  He gave him a calling.  That’s the kind of God we serve.  The kind who meets us in the middle of our self-doubt and gently says,

“You’re still mine. I’m not finished with you. Let’s keep going.”

Jumping Off the Boat

It’s amazing how quickly we return to what we knew when we’re confronted with our own failure.  When we fail, it’s almost instinctive.  We slip back into old habits, old thought patterns, old versions of ourselves that feel familiar, even if they were never truly safe. It didn’t take Peter long to return to fishing. His Savior was gone (or so he thought) and he had failed in every way imaginable.

He had denied the One he swore to protect. The One he loved most. The shame must’ve been unbearable. Maybe, deep down, he even blamed himself for what happened. Peter, who had always seen himself as a kind of shield for Jesus, now bore the weight of powerlessness and regret.

So he went back to what he knew. Back to fishing.

But isn’t it fascinating that the moment he realized Jesus was still there, still alive, still loving him, still choosing him, he couldn’t get off that boat fast enough?  He didn’t ask for permission. He didn’t wait for the nets to be hauled in. He didn’t calculate how deep the water was. He just jumped.

Nothing else mattered more than getting back to Jesus.  And you know, the same is true for us.  We don’t lose our Savior just because we fail.

Our failure doesn’t un-resurrect Jesus.  It doesn’t send Him away.  He’s still there. Waiting on the shoreline of our hearts.  When we come to our senses, when grace breaks through the fog of shame, we have only one job: 

Jump off the boat.
Soaking wet clothes and all.
Whatever it takes to return to the One who still calls us “mine.”
The One who heals us, restores us, protects us, and speaks purpose over us again.

Temptation always tries to drag us back into our past.  It whispers about our failures and throws our memories in our face.  But Jesus is always looking forward.  He is always ready to redeem what’s been broken, restore what’s been lost, and rewrite our story with grace.

So when you find yourself drifting back into the old life:
Jump.
Don’t wait.
Swim hard.
Because your Savior is still there, cooking breakfast on the shore, ready to remind you that your story is not over.

I accidentally forgot what day my birthday was on this week.

Well, inadvertently, as did my kids. They scheduled a celebration for a different night, thinking my birthday was on a different day (because that's what I told them, since I can't seem to recall my own birthday). No big deal. We’ll celebrate together on whatever day works best. Honestly, it doesn’t bother me one bit. The truth is, the introvert in me might just be looking forward to how the day will actually unfold.

When I get home from work on my birthday this year, it’ll be quiet.  My kids won't be around.  My Mom won't be, either. Just me and God.  I can’t think of a better way to spend the evening.

No cake. No candles. No party hats. Just some stillness, a soft place to land, and a heart full of memories. I'm not trying to elevate myself or my birthday into something sacred. But I do believe, deep down, that God knows the day He decided I would enter this world. I believe He saw value in that day, even if I didn’t always see it myself.

So, this year, I want to give that day back to Him.

I want to sit with Him and walk through old memories, not all of them easy. Some of them, honestly, are painful. There have been chapters I made a mess of. Seasons where I wandered so far I’m amazed He didn’t leave me there. Times when I sat in pits I dug with my own hands and still, still, He stayed.

That’s what I want to remember.  Not the years I’ve lived but the faithfulness He’s shown.  The goodness. The mercy. The undeserved grace.

My birthday won’t be about balloons or dinner reservations this year. It’ll be about a quiet house, an open Bible, maybe a candle lit in prayer rather than celebration. It’ll be about whispered thank-yous and soul-deep gratitude. And maybe, if the weather cooperates, a walk outside where I can breathe in His presence and thank Him for every breath He’s let me take.

The truth is, I don’t feel all that worth celebrating. But He is.

Once, when I was a teenager, I was driving a black Mustang my dad had bought for $400 and lovingly fixed up for me. I had added my own flair to it (this was the '90s, after all), a bold pink lightning bolt running down the side. To me, that car was freedom and fire. On this particular weekend, a friend and I were staying with family, there to watch my cousins wrestle in a state championship.

After the match, driving back along an empty stretch of gravel road, I wanted to show off a little. I wanted to see what the Mustang could really do.

I didn’t expect to lose control.  But loose gravel has no mercy on Mustangs, even if they have a pink lightning bolt.

In an instant, two teenage girls were spinning and skidding sideways into the middle of a cornfield.  A family cornfield, no less (sorry, Uncle). I never did confess the damage we left behind. But the part that still sticks in my mind all these years later is that the car didn’t roll. It should have. We should have been hurt. Or worse.

No one would’ve found us quickly.  This was the middle of nowhere, long before cell phones were a thing. But nothing happened. Not a scratch, not a bruise. Just two wide-eyed girls in a dusty cornfield with a whole lot of “what ifs” hanging in the air.

It was mercy. Plain and simple.

That moment is just one from a long list, a very long list, of times when my own foolishness could have left permanent scars, and yet, God said no. Not today. Not her.

This birthday, I want to sit with those stories. Not out of guilt, but out of gratitude. I want to remember just how often God has stood between me and disaster. Just how often He’s spared me from the full weight of my own choices.  I want to be the ones who says thanks.

It reminds me of a moment in Scripture.  Jesus was traveling along the border between Samaria and Galilee when He encountered ten men with leprosy. They stood at a distance, outcasts, unwanted, unclean, and they called out to Him for mercy. Of course, He gave it. He told them to go show themselves to the priests, and as they went, they were healed. Ten lives transformed, ten stories rewritten.

But only one came back to say thanks.

Through The Eyes Of A Thankful Leper

I don’t remember the last time someone touched me.  Not gently. Not kindly. Not without flinching.

Leprosy doesn’t just eat at your skin. It eats at your identity. Slowly. Cruelly. It begins with numbness. You don’t feel the burn from a cooking fire. You don’t feel the rock that gouges your heel. Then the wounds come and they stay and they spread. Before long, your body becomes something people fear to look at.

I've watched pieces of myself disappear, literally. Fingers. Toes. Feeling. Dignity.  Maybe worse than what the disease did to my body was what it did to my place in the world. I had to leave my home, my family, my life. The priests said I was unclean and God had turned His face against me. I wasn’t welcome in the temple anymore.

I lived outside the city, with others like me. People who coughed in the night and cried out when their skin cracked open. We were the walking dead, untouchable, unapproachable, and unwanted. If someone came near, we covered our faces and shouted out warnings:  “Unclean! Unclean!”

You stop being a person after a while. You are, instead, a warning.

We had heard the stories about Jesus. He touched lepers.  Yes, He touched them. Who does that? Who risks being defiled, contaminated, cast out themselves? But we heard Jesus had this way of breaking every rule that needed to be broken.

And then, He came.

We saw Him approaching the village, walking along the border between Samaria and Galilee. I didn’t expect Him to come our direction. No one ever did. People kept their distance from our little patch of forgotten earth.

But He turned toward us, ten broken men standing in the dust, holding more shame than skin on our bones. 

And, He looked at us.  Not through us. Not around us.

He didn’t flinch.  He didn’t step back.  He didn’t turn His face in polite avoidance the way others did.  He saw us.  He saw me.  

That was especially surprising to me, because I was a Samaritan.  The illness had forced us together. Jews and Samaritans, people who normally wouldn’t even speak to one another, now bound by a shared suffering. In the leper colony, all those boundaries blurred. Pain has a way of leveling people.

But still,  I was used to being doubly dismissed. First for my disease, and second for my heritage. Yet Jesus looked at me, a Samaritan, and didn’t look away.

Then came the command: “Go, show yourselves to the priests.”

As we walked, skin that had rotted began to knit together. The pain dulled. Strength returned. I watched my hands come back to life in front of my eyes. Hands I hadn’t wanted to look at for years.

The others ran ahead. I don’t blame them.  They had families to return to. Priests to show themselves to. A new life waiting for them that they had been dreaming of for years. For a moment, my feet turned with theirs. My heart raced with the hope of restoration, of everything I had lost being suddenly, miraculously returned.

But then, something stirred deep in me. A force I hadn't felt before, and it was something I couldn’t ignore.

I stopped. because it wasn’t enough just to be healed.  I needed Him to know.  I needed Jesus to know what this meant. What He meant.

He didn’t have to stop that day. No one would have questioned it if He kept walking. No one ever came our way, and even fewer acknowledged us as people. I was a leper. A Samaritan. I lived with layers of rejection.

But He had seen me.  I couldn't go another step without falling at His feet to say thank You.

So I turned around.  And I ran, not from shame this time, but with tears blurring my vision and praise burning in my chest. I ran to the feet of the One who had done what no one else ever had:

He saw me.
He healed me.
He loved me.

I collapsed before Him, overwhelmed and undone.  I didn’t have fancy words. Just worship. Just awe. Just the kind of gratitude that comes from knowing you’ve been rescued in both body and soul.  So I knelt low and I worshiped.

He looked at me and said," Rise and go; your faith has made you well.”  I knew something else had happened, something more than skin-deep.  There was a second miracle that day.

The first miracle healed my body.  The second healed my soul.

In the act of returning…
In the kneeling…
In the gratitude…

Something inside me was restored. 

I came to say thank you and I walked away whole.

The Turnaround

Not everyone turns back.  Ten were healed, but one returned.

I’ve thought a lot about that moment, the decision to stop, to turn around, to go back and say thank You. It’s easy to run forward into the newness, the celebration, the freedom of healing. God knows He's done a lot of healing in me.  But,  there’s something sacred in the pause, in the remembering, in the act of gratitude.

That’s the heartbeat behind how I want to spend my birthday this year.  I want to be the one who turns around.  I want to sit with God in the quiet of my living room, Bible open, memories laid bare, and offer Him the one thing I know I can give: my gratitude. My praise. My worship.

Not because everything in my life is perfect, but because He is.

I’ve seen Him show up when I didn’t deserve it. I’ve seen Him protect me when I was reckless, provide when I was desperate, and stay when I wouldn’t have blamed Him for walking away.  I’ve been healed more times than I can count, sometimes in ways I didn’t even know I needed.

So this year, the candles and cake can wait.
But the praise? That can’t.

This is my turnaround moment.
Not away from Him.
But toward Him, again and again and again.

Sometimes miracles don’t look like miracles at all. They don’t come with fireworks or fanfare, or even a large audience. 

No one talks about it much, but a faithful life is often a quiet one. It’s not always the loudest voice in the room or the most dramatic testimony on stage. Sometimes it’s showing up to work, coming home, and being present. Sometimes it’s making dinner, folding laundry, checking in on a friend, reading your Bible, and walking your dog before the sun goes down. It’s choosing peace. Choosing discipline. Choosing to trust God with the small things, over and over again.

We live in a world that celebrates the flashy.  Big moves, bold declarations, overnight transformations. But so often, real beauty is found in consistency. In quiet obedience. In doing the thing God asked you to do… again. It’s kind of like saving for retirement: it doesn’t look like much at first. Just a small deposit here, another there. But with enough time, it builds a kind of security no one can take away. The faithful life is like that too, it compounds. Maybe what some people call a boring life is actually a beautiful life.

That’s where I find myself these days. I’ve been walking 20 miles a week for three weeks straight to train for my SEIT (Super Exciting International Trip).  But I also do it just to move my body, clear my mind, and breathe a little deeper. Every week, I pray God gives me the energy to do it again. Because walking has become more than a habit, it’s slowly becoming a rhythm.

Ever since I committed to this walking goal, I’ve started to see my city differently. When you slow down and move at the pace of your own two feet, you notice things.  Small shops tucked between buildings, a new coffee place you’d usually speed past, a winding trail that wasn’t even on your radar before. These walks have become little windows into a quieter world, one I didn’t know I needed.

Zeus, my loyal (and slightly dramatic) husky, has become my walking buddy when the weather allows. He’s not exactly built for July. Let’s just say summer turns him into a panting mop with legs. But on the days when the temperatures dip just enough, like today, he’s ready. He made it a mile and a half this morning before his pace slowed and his eyes started pleading for mercy. 

But he didn’t quit. He never does. His tail kept wagging, and he trotted on beside me, doing his best to keep up. That’s the thing about Zeus, he always wants to come along, no matter how hot it is or how far we’re going. He shows up, and he gives what he’s got. It’s a simple kind of loyalty that tugs at my heart every time.

Today’s walk took us somewhere new, a shaded trail tucked behind a grove of trees I hadn’t explored before. The sun was still low enough to stream through the branches in golden streaks, and the birds were singing like it was their job. Zeus was smiling (as much as a dog can smile), and I felt that strange, holy hush that sometimes settles in when you’re not trying too hard, when you’re just there.

In that moment, I thought, Who would’ve guessed I’d enjoy walking this much?

I used to think that doing something “meaningful” had to look big. Loud. Impressive. But more and more, I’m learning that meaning often slips in through the back door of the ordinary. It hides in Tuesday morning walks, in tired dogs who won’t give up, in sunlight through trees and the whisper of birdsong. It lives in faithful routines, in the quiet choice to keep going, in the daily yes to whatever God is inviting me into.

This life I’m living might not look exciting to some, but maybe that’s okay. Maybe faithfulness was never supposed to be flashy. Maybe it was always supposed to be steady. Rooted. Beautiful in its simplicity.

I’m starting to think that God delights in our mile-and-a-half Tuesdays. I can’t speak for Him, of course, but I wouldn’t be surprised if He smiles when we lace up our shoes and keep walking anyway. Not because we have to. But because we trust Him enough to show up again.

A faithful life isn’t always headline-worthy. But it is heaven-worthy. 

Walking with God

Walking with God is a theme that runs all through Scripture. And it’s rarely flashy. It doesn’t usually come with thunder or applause. More often than not, it’s quiet, steady, and deeply intentional.

Take Enoch, for example. He was the seventh from Adam, tucked into a genealogy in Genesis 5 where every name ends the same way: “and he died.” But not Enoch. The Bible says, “Enoch walked with God; then he was no more, because God took him away.” (Genesis 5:24)

While others simply lived, Enoch walked with God. It wasn’t just about survival, it was about relationship. To walk with God is to set Him always before us, to care in all things to please Him, and to aim never to offend Him. It’s to follow Him as dear children.  If you’ve ever had little ones trailing behind you through a store or across a parking lot, you know that kind of closeness. That kind of attention. Enoch lived that way, with constant care in how he walked through the world, and given the timeframe he was likely rejected for it.

Hebrews 11:5 tells us, “By faith Enoch was taken from this life, so that he did not experience death… For before he was taken, he was commended as one who pleased God.”

And how did he please God? By faith. Not by doing something big and loud, but by faithfully walking, day after day, with his heart set on the One who created him.

I saw that kind of quiet faith up close when I was a kid. One summer, I stayed on the farm with my great aunt and uncle to help during wheat harvest. My job wasn’t complicated.  I made sandwiches and rode along to deliver them out to the field hands. But what I remember most isn’t the sandwiches or the combine rides. It’s my great uncle.

Harvest meant long days, sunup to sundown, but no matter how early the work began, he was always up before the sun. You’d find him in the kitchen at a wooden booth, steaming coffee in hand, head bent low over his Bible. He wore the same overalls and farm hat every day, and if you happened to walk in while he was reading, he’d gently close the Bible, place it in the window sill, greet you with a smile, and give you his full attention.

He did this every single day. It didn’t matter if it was summer or winter, harvest or rest. His rhythm didn’t change. He wasn’t flashy. He didn’t have a stage. He worked on trucks, fed calves, and made his way into the fields alongside his sons. He did preach a few times at their small country church, but he wasn’t famous. When he died, his obituary was short and simple. It said he loved the Lord.

And yet, to this day, I cannot think of anyone in my life who walked with God like my great uncle did.  Beautifully, quietly, and faithfully. His was a life well-lived. Not headline-worthy, but heaven-worthy.

It reminds me of Elijah, standing on the mountain waiting for God to speak. There was a mighty windstorm, but God wasn’t in the wind. Then came an earthquake, but God wasn’t in the earthquake. Then a fire, but God wasn’t in the fire. And after all of that came a still small voice, and that’s where God was. (1 Kings 19:11–12)

Isn’t that just like Him? While the world looks for God in the loud and spectacular, He so often meets us in the quiet. In the simple. In the steady. In a man with a Bible and a coffee cup before dawn.

Faith That Grows

That kind of faith, the kind my great uncle had, doesn’t usually begin with fanfare. It begins small. Sometimes, it begins as quietly as a whisper, a thought, a decision to open the Bible before sunrise or walk a mile on a Tuesday.

Jesus once told His disciples that faith, even as small as a mustard seed, could move mountains. And it’s fascinating that He chose a mustard seed. It’s tiny. Barely noticeable. But once it’s planted, it doesn’t stay small. It grows into something much larger than you’d expect, something that offers shade, shelter, and space for others. In some places, mustard is even considered a weed because it spreads so persistently. It fills empty spaces. It pushes through cracks in the soil. It grows even when it’s overlooked.

That’s what walking with God does to our faith. It doesn’t just exist, it expands. Quietly. Steadily. Faith grows in the everyday choices to trust Him, to spend time with Him, to seek Him in the ordinary. And before you know it, that little seed of faith has worked its way into your thoughts, your rhythms, your responses. It changes how you work, how you love, how you endure. It even changes how you walk, perhaps physically (in my case) and spiritually.

But here’s the thing: it can be tempting to believe that attention equals importance. We live in a world obsessed with the visible, the celebrated, the platformed. Even in the Christian world, we can fall into the trap of thinking something only matters if it has a sound system, a projector, and a well-designed logo. And those things are all fine, if they’re done with the right heart. But they’re not what make something important.

Faith doesn’t have to be flashy to be fruitful. And obedience doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful. The world may overlook the early-morning Bible reading, the faithful work behind the scenes, the mile walked in prayer, but God doesn’t. Heaven notices. Heaven sees.

Because a faithful life isn’t always about doing something big. Sometimes it’s just about doing the next right thing, with God beside you, and maybe a tired husky trailing behind.