Well, you all missed out this weekend. I tried something called iFLY. It is basically indoor skydiving for those of us who like roller coasters but aren’t quite ready to fling ourselves out of a perfectly good airplane.
We decided to do it as a family to celebrate my nephew’s birthday. Naturally, I (along with my brothers and all of our collective children) agreed to participate, because who doesn't love a little competition to see who flies the best? In total, nine of us suited up and took to the skies, or at least the giant wind tunnel.
If you can’t quite picture indoor skydiving, let me help: you walk into a giant vertical tunnel powered by fans so powerful they could probably launch a cow into orbit. You assume a position kind of like you’re going through airport security, arms up and legs slightly apart, except you’re horizontal. Then, whoosh, you’re flying! After a brief training session (which mostly consisted of "arms here" and "relax"), you even get the chance to soar up towards the top of the tunnel.
It was hilarious, it was thrilling, and yes I would absolutely do it again. I have to say, not to brag or anything, but I actually did very well at iFLY.
When you're in the tunnel, you have an instructor with you at all times, but there's also a second instructor standing outside the tunnel, keeping a close eye on everything. Before you even step inside, they teach you a few basic hand signals, like how they'll let you know if you need to lift your head, drop your chin, adjust your arms, and so on.
And honestly? Part of the reason I was so successful is because I never took my eyes off that outside instructor unless I floated to the other side of the tunnel. Even the tiniest tilt of his head or movement of his arms, and I would mimic it immediately. And it worked!
Before long, I was floating steady, and my in-tunnel instructor actually let go of me completely. For a few glorious seconds, I was really flying with no hands, no help, just me and the air.
But here’s the thing, the second I lost eye contact with the instructor, the second I turned around or drifted out of position, everything got harder. My arms would stiffen or my legs would sag, and just like that, I couldn’t stay steady anymore. I was off course.
Every time that happened, I had to find the outside instructor again. As soon as I did, as soon as I followed his lead, I could correct my posture and get back to flying. That was the key to my success. Beating my brothers at anything we might be competing in makes the day even sweeter. So all in all, it was a fantastic day.
But as I floated there, correcting and refocusing over and over, it struck me. This wasn’t just about flying. It reminded me of a particular story from the Bible that was far more dramatic than a wind tunnel.
Why Did You Doubt?
It was the middle of the night. The disciples were out on the Sea of Galilee, battered by waves and a strong wind. Jesus had stayed behind to pray, so they were alone, rowing, struggling, anxious. And then, through the mist and the storm, they saw something - no someone - walking on the water toward them.
At first, they were terrified. They thought it was a ghost. But Jesus immediately called out to them:
“Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”
Peter, ever bold, ever impulsive, responded: “Lord, if it’s really you, tell me to come to you on the water.”
And Jesus said, “Come.”
Can you imagine that moment? Peter, feet braced against the edge of the boat, heart racing, lifting one leg over the side. The wind is still howling. The waves are still crashing. Nothing about the storm has stopped, and yet, he steps out.
And for a moment, he does it. Peter walks on water.
Not because he’s strong. Not because the sea has calmed. But because his eyes are locked on Jesus. As long as he’s focused on his Savior, the impossible becomes possible. But then, just like in that wind tunnel, the distractions creep in. Peter notices the wind. He feels the spray of the sea. Maybe lightning cracks across the sky. His eyes shift, just slightly, away from Jesus.
And he begins to sink.
He cries out, “Lord, save me!” And immediately, not five minutes later, not after Peter has learned a lesson, Jesus reaches out His hand and catches him. He steadies him. And then He gently says,
“You of little faith, why did you doubt?”
I couldn’t help but think of that moment as I flew. When my eyes were fixed on the instructor, I floated. When I lost focus, I flailed. And in life, it’s not so different.
We all face storms, chaos, heartbreak, fear, and uncertainty. We get distracted. We look at the waves. We look at the wind. We look at the opinions of others, the bills, the illness, the disappointments, and we begin to sink. But the second we lock eyes with our Savior again, everything changes. He’s there, steady and sure, ready to catch us the moment we call out.
What Are You Fixing Your Eyes On?
Peter fixed his eyes on Jesus and did something impossible. He walked on water. But fixing our eyes on Jesus isn’t just about rising above storms. It’s also about healing. It's about wholeness, direction, and life.
So here’s the real question: What are you fixing your eyes on?
Everything in this world is working overtime to pull our focus away from Jesus. Fear, pride, comparison, social media, bad news, and busy schedules all clamor for our attention. And if we’re not careful, we drift. Not in one giant leap, but inch by inch, thought by thought, glance by glance.
Fixing your eyes on Jesus isn’t automatic. It’s not a passive state you fall into by accident. It’s a decision. A conscious, daily, sometimes moment-by-moment effort to look to Him instead of everything else.
It’s kind of like swimming in the ocean. You can be playing in the water one minute and then glance up to realize you’ve drifted far from where you started. You didn’t plan to move. The current just carried you. That’s how life works too. The world has a current. It pulls. And unless we’re intentionally anchoring ourselves in Christ, keeping our eyes fixed on Him, we’ll find ourselves in places we never meant to go.
So we must look on purpose.
This isn’t just a New Testament concept. There’s another powerful moment in Scripture when God’s people had to look up, on purpose, and that upward gaze meant the difference between life and death.
In Numbers 21, as the Israelites wandered in the wilderness, they sinned against God again. As a result, venomous snakes invaded the camp, and many were dying. The people repented and begged Moses to intercede. And God gave him a strange instruction:
“The Lord said to Moses, ‘Make a fiery serpent and set it on a pole, and everyone who is bitten, when he looks at it, shall live.’” – Numbers 21:8
Moses obeyed, crafting a bronze serpent and lifting it high for the people to see. And everyone who looked, who turned their gaze upward in faith, was healed. Would I have looked up a the snake to be healed in that circumstance? To be honest, I don't know. I might have rolled my eyes at this ridiculous solution, stayed in my tent with my Cheetos, and died from a snake bite.
But, it wasn’t about the snake. It was about the direction of their eyes.
And Jesus made the connection clear in John 3:14–15 when He said:
“Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the wilderness, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes may have eternal life in him.”
He was saying, “That story? It was always about Me.”
He would be lifted up on a cross. And those who would look to Him, not with a passing glance, but with faith, would be healed. Not just from snake bites or surface wounds, but from the deepest, deadliest poison of all: sin.
That’s what happens when we fix our eyes on Jesus.
We don’t just stay afloat like Peter — we live. We are healed. We are saved.
Fixing Our Eyes on Jesus Changes How We See Everything Else
Peter stayed afloat by focusing on Jesus. The Israelites were healed when they looked up. But here’s something else I’ve learned through experience: fixing our eyes on Jesus doesn’t just help us survive, it transforms the way we see everything else.
During my divorce, one of the things I struggled with most was facing the daily grind of my job. I know it might sound odd, but so much of my identity and confidence had been wrapped up in my marriage. When it ended, I felt stripped down and exposed. What once felt manageable now felt impossible. Every morning, opening the front door to head to work felt like Goliath was standing there waiting for me. I had so many giants to face, and no confidence left to fight them.
And yet, my job didn’t change. The stress, the workload, they stayed the same. But something else started to change: my focus.
I began to fix my eyes on Jesus, not just occasionally, not just on Sundays, but as a daily, deliberate choice. And what I discovered is this: when I look at my problems through the lens of His sovereignty, they may not disappear… but they shrink. All of a sudden, life isn't so scary.
I stop reacting in fear and start responding in faith.
I begin to see people with more grace, circumstances with more hope, and myself with more purpose.
But when I drift and fall out of rhythm, when I stop prioritizing time with God, the fear always creeps back in. Give me two good weeks without my focus fixed on Him, and I’ll find myself terrified to open the door again. The giants return. The job feels impossible. Nothing has changed, except where my eyes are looking.
Paul said it this way in 2 Corinthians 4:18:
“So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”
The world constantly pulls our attention toward the visible, success, image, headlines, chaos, urgency. But Jesus invites us to look higher. To focus on what lasts forever. And when we do that? Even the wind tunnel moments of life start to feel different.
We may still feel the pressure. We may still face the storm. But our eyes will be fixed on the One who has already overcome it all.